What the altar-bound of today end up buying from their numberless vendors is a dog's breakfast of bridal excess - part society wedding of the twenties, part Long Island Italian wedding of the fifties. It's The Philadelphia Story and The Wedding Singer served up together in one curious and costly buffet.
Caitlin FlanaganKeeping a diary is like closing your bedroom door and refusing to come out until dinnertime: it is a declaration of self.
Caitlin FlanaganFemale adolescence is - universally - an emotionally and psychologically intense period.
Caitlin FlanaganTo really love Joan Didionโto have been blown over by things like the smell of jasmine and the packing list she kept by her suitcaseโyou have to be female.
Caitlin FlanaganPubescent girls, it seems, are manifestly more likely to exhibit extreme and bizarre psychological symptoms than are teenage boys.
Caitlin FlanaganMothers ... would do anything to steer their daughter the right way. It is frustrating beyond measure for them when a daughter screams, 'You don't understand, and you'll never understand!' The mother stamps her foot in aggravation, but in this case the daughter is right: the mother doesn't understand. She merely remembers, and memory is separate from experience.
Caitlin Flanagan