I don't like to think of myself as a 'virgin'. I prefer to think of myself as 'sexually incomplete'. You know. Like I haven't finished the course yet.

And if you were always spending your time getting over your past, how were you supposed to get on with your future?

There's so many things that mattered so much in my 20s and 30s that don't matter now.

I always thought that there was a really good chance that I wasn't going to get married.

All those men who end up disappointing you. After a while, you don't even want to have feelings anymore. You just want to get on with your life.

I've always thought there are two ways of getting what you wanted in life.Forcing people to give it to you,or making them want to give it to you.

My parents had a great marriage. Interestingly, it made it harder for me in relationships because I knew what a good relationship looked like.