The only person who cannot be helped is that person who blames others.

I have come to think that one of the most satisfying experiences I know — and also one of the most growth-promoting experiences for the other person — is just fully to appreciate this individual in the same way that I appreciate a sunset.

True empathy is always free of any evaluative or diagnostic quality. This comes across to the recipient with some surprise. "If I am not being judged, perhaps I am not so evil or abnormal as I have thought".

It's an awful risky thing to live

The only person who cannot be helped is that person who blames others.

What I am is good enough if I would only be it openly.

Am I living in a way which is deeply satisfying to me, and which truly expresses me?