I do think it's smart to see a marriage as "a garden and a gardener who constantly swap roles." You really have to switch from one to another. Being the gardener would be the more active role in the situation. Being a garden would be more passive. You've got to be both the one who gets help and the one that's helping. That's the circulation in a couple. You should switch from one position to another. I think it's good to be always aware that love can fade. There's something I really like about that sentence. It's as if love should be seen as work...because it is.

I thought marriage was something very quiet and very regular and very bourgeois.

I care about writing music and playing my music.

In reality, I don't see myself as a man hunter. In fact, when it comes to love, I am rarely the one to make the first move.

It would never occur to me to judge anyone.

I can no longer seduce because I love my husband. I don’t want to hurt him. I am no longer a man-eater.

I love English rock music the best and have always been fascinated by The Clash, especially Joe Strummer, their singer.