I do think it's smart to see a marriage as "a garden and a gardener who constantly swap roles." You really have to switch from one to another. Being the gardener would be the more active role in the situation. Being a garden would be more passive. You've got to be both the one who gets help and the one that's helping. That's the circulation in a couple. You should switch from one position to another. I think it's good to be always aware that love can fade. There's something I really like about that sentence. It's as if love should be seen as work...because it is.

It's always astounded me to have succeeded at having kids. It's crazy!

We don't need to be feminist in my generation.

I want a man with nuclear power.

I find that talking about myself is often the most boring thing in the world. Sixty per cent of interviews I find mechanical.

Marriage is another trap. If you are someone who likes independence, it's another stamp against that. And you have to swear to fidelity.

I am cursed with computers; something always goes wrong.