...to tune the spirit when someone is trampling on you is called control
Nothing in this world is a gift. Whatever must be learned must be learned the hard way.
The only thing that is real is the being in you that is going to die.
Your problems is that you think you have time.
The basic difference between an ordinary man and a warrior is that a warrior takes everything as a challenge while an ordinary man takes everything as a blessing or a curse.
For a warrior, to be inaccessible means that he touches the world around him sparingly. And above all, he deliberately avoids exhausting himselfand others. He doesn't use and squeeze people until they have shriveled to nothing, especially the people he loves.