Sometimes carrying the burden of an upsetting truth, and hiding it, is actually a gift you give to someone else. You bear that burden, so they donโt have to, in a situation where telling them will change nothing.
Cassandra ClareOnly mundanes say they're sorry when what they mean is "I share your grief,"' Jace observed.
Cassandra ClareI can't tell them what to do!" "Why not?" the other girl demanded. "Honestly, Clary, if you don't start utilizing a bit of your natural feminine superiority, I just don't know what I'll do with you.
Cassandra ClareYou've always been what you are. That's not new. What you'll get used to is knowing it.
Cassandra ClareTime was like the rain, glittering as it fell, changing the world, but something that could also be taken for granted. Until you love a mortal. Then time became gold in a miser's hands, every bright year counted out carefully, infinitely precious, and each one slipping through you fingers. Cassandra Clare: What Really Happened in Peru
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