We're already saying it's not the dog, but you need to adopt this lifestyle which is exercise, discipline, and affection.
Cesar MillanGive your dog something to do before you share food, water, toys or affection. This way the dog earns his treat. For example, have him or her perform the "sit" or "down" command.
Cesar MillanAmericans are very big about loving the dog first, so when you tell them you have to set rules and limitations, a lot of people believe it's going to hurt their feelings. They're actually looking for you to be the pack leader.
Cesar Millan