There are no 'come shoot me' clothes.
One thing the gay rights movement taught the world is the importance of being visible.
Co-opted convictions will always betray you.
There can be moments in your life where you may feel attracted to someone depending on circumstance, depending on the person of one gender or another, and sometimes where that is less of an influence in your life.
I know a bigot when I see a bigot.
The only way to vanquish cowardice is to brandish courage.