We become full human agents, capable of understanding ourselves, and hence of defining our identity, through our acquisition of rich human languages of expression.
Charles TaylorWe define our identity always in dialogue with, sometimes in struggle against, the things our significant others want to see in us. Even after we outgrow some of these othersโour parents, for instanceโand they disappear from our lives, the conversation with them continues within us as long as we live.
Charles Taylor[E]ach of our voices has something unique to say. Not only should I not mold my life to the demands of external conformity; I can't even find the model by which to live outside myself. I can only find it within.
Charles TaylorThere is a widespread sense of loss here, if not always of God, then at least of meaning.
Charles Taylor