I am a relationship girl. That's kind of just how I'm made... When you're in my life, it's actually very contained.

I love being a woman and I love being feminine.

I treat my relationships like marriages. The ceremony isn't that important to me.

I think that women find their strength and power in their sexuality, in their sensuality within, [through] getting older and being secure within that.

Think bigger than society lets you think. And find mentors. My life is filled with people who knew me when I was 19 and had a horrible South African accent and bleach-blond hair and who believed in me in a way that was brutal. They were just unbelievable and consistent and smart. Find mentors who, every time you're with them, you're being schooled. Just absolutely schooled.

There's only so much you can do, but if somebody doesn't give you a chance there is nothing you can do.

I was going to go to Macchu Picchu and then I just ended up working the whole year.