A reader kindly pointed out to me recently that most of the quotes I include are by men. And it's true. Personally, I don't even consider whether the author is male or female, nor even care much who the author is - what's significant is the message. Of course, women are equally capable of great insights, however in our culture it's not so long ago that women could not even be published

You, sir, are the most phantom-like of all; you are a mere dream

He is not to them what he is to me.

Unheard-of combinations of circumstances demand unheard-of rules.

I can only say with deeper sincerity and fuller significance what I have always said in theory - Wait God's will.

I am very happy, Jane; and when you hear that I am dead, you must be sure and not grieve: there is nothing to grieve about. We all must die one day, and the illness which is removing me is not painful; it is gentle and gradual: my mind is at rest. I leave no one to regret me much: I have only a father; and he is lately married, and will not miss me. By dying young, I shall escape great sufferings. I had not qualities or talents to make my way very well in the world: I should have been continually at fault.

And with that answer, he left me. I would much rather he had knocked me down.