You love tenderly and warmly, but your love is like friendship. That's why you have good friends, you're sociable, sympathetic toward people. Until this dissatisfaction comes over you-you know what I'm talking about. Then you become moody, can even repulse people who are close to you, even people who love you, you know why. Those are bad times when everything goes cold, and they follow the times of great love.
Christa WolfIt is this ability to bear what is unbearable and to go on living, to go on doing what one is used to doingโit is this uncanny ability that the existence of the human race is based on.
Christa Wolf