Pain is pain. It needs no description.

A hatchling, that is what you are. A hatchling struggling into the world. I may be younger than you in years, but I am ancient in my thoughts. Do not worry about these things. Find peace in where and what you are. People often know what must be done. All you need to do is show them the way — that is wisdom.

Why?' - Nasuada 'You know why' - Murtagh

Anger has its place, but it will not serve you here, the way of the warrior is the way of knowing. Of that knowledge requires you to use anger, then you use anger, but you cannot wrest forth knowledge by losing your temper.

But anyone with the time and the inclination can acquire technical proficiency. To achieve greatness, though, that requires artistry. That requires imagination and thoughtfulness.

Do not dwell on what once was, but rather look forward and ponder how you can make the future brighter

Because you can't argue with all the fools in the world. It's easier to let them have their way, then trick them when they're not paying attention.