I think for gay people to see gay people living honestly about everything they do is really a contribution.

I don't want to judge anyone's sex life - but I worry that those are the only options we are giving to our young people.

Make a beautiful mess and clean it up later.

I am one of those people, and I may be personally biased, who wishes that I had some place to come out of the closet besides a bar.

Honestly, in retrospect, I would wish for future generations to have the ability to have a coming out process that was less alcohol-soaked than mine was.

I had seen the gay social chronicle done abundantly and done very well. And I didn't want to do any more of that myself, I wanted us to be included in the popular mainstream of entertainment fiction.

I made the decision that, to be happy and to be content, I needed to live the life of an exclusive homosexual. I don't mean an elitist homosexual, but I mean someone who is exclusively pursuing partners of the same gender.