Sometimes you have to go through some ugly stuff to get to the good stuff.
Be black or white with no shades of gray. In other words, don't be a nagging mother.
To change your horse you must first change yourself!
Horsemanship should be fun. By learning how to control your horse in any situation, your confidence will greatly increase. When you're confident, you can relax and enjoy your partnership.
Average talent, plus hard work and dedication, will always beat talent by itself.
Always be humble enough to learn something new. Otherwise, it's only a matter of time before your knowledge becomes outdated.