The superior man governs men, according to their nature, with what is proper to them, and as soon as they change what is wrong, he stops.
ConfuciusThe Master said, "To study, and then in a timely fashion to practice what you have learned - is this not satisfying? To have companions arrive from afar - is this not a joy? To remain unrecognized by others and yet remain free of resentment - is this not the mark of the gentleman?"
ConfuciusDon't worry if people don't recognize your merits; worry that you may not recognize theirs.
ConfuciusIn his dealings with the world, the gentleman is not invariably for or against anything. He is on the side of what is moral.
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