A superior man may be made to go to the well, but he cannot be made to go down into it. He may be imposed upon, but he cannot be fooled.
ConfuciusThe Master said of Gong Yechang, โHe is marriageable. Although he was once imprisoned and branded as a criminal, he was in fact innocent of any crime.โ The Master gave him his daughter in marriage. (Analects 5.1)
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