The man of noble mind seeks to achieve the good in others and not their evil. The little-minded man is the reverse of this.
ConfuciusIf the gentleman is not serious, he will not be respected, and his learning will not be on a firm foundation. He considers loyalty and faithfulness to be fundamental, has no friends who are not like him, and when he has made mistakes, he is not afraid of correcting them.
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