I used to listen to what others said, and expect them to act accordingly. But nowadays, I listen to what they say, and then observe what they do.
ConfuciusThe superior man does what is proper to the station in which he is; he does not desire to go beyond this. In a position of wealth and honor, he does what is proper to a position of wealth and honor. In a poor and low position, he does what is proper to a poor and low position.
ConfuciusThe man who asks a question is a fool for a minute, the man who does not ask is a fool for life.
ConfuciusUnify your attention. Do not listen with your ears, but with your mind. Do not listen with your mind but with your essence.
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