The superior man sets his person at rest before he moves; he composes his mind before he speaks.
ConfuciusThe superior man has a dignified ease without pride. The mean man has pride without a dignified ease.
ConfuciusIn dealing with the dead, if we treat them as if they were entirely dead, that would show a want of affection and should not be done; or, if we treat them as if they were entirely alive, that would show a want of wisdom and should not be done.
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