The superior man makes the difficulty to be overcome his first interest; success only comes later.
ConfuciusThe young should be dutiful at home, modest abroad, careful and true, overflowing in kindness for all, but in brotherhood with love. And if they have strength to spare they should spend it on the arts.
ConfuciusThe superior man is easy to serve, but difficult to please ... The inferior man is difficult to serve, but easy to please.
Confucius