When a person should be spoken with, and you don't speak with them, you lose them. When a person shouldn't be spoken with and you speak to them, you waste your breath. The wise do not lose people, nor do they waste their breath.
ConfuciusThe main object of conciliation lies in reaching a solution to a case based upon morals and with a warm heart.
ConfuciusThere is nothing impossible in all the world except that the heart of man is wanting in resolution.
Confucius