When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.
ConfuciusA superior man in dealing with the world is not for anything or against anything. He follows righteousness as the standard.
ConfuciusThe Master said, "Wealth and honor are things that all people desire, and yet unless they are acquired in the proper way I will not abide them. Poverty and disgrace are things that all people hate, and yet unless they are avoided in the proper way I will not despise them. If the gentleman abandons ren, how can he be worthy of that name? The gentleman does not violate ren even for the amount of time required to eat a meal. Even in times of urgency or distress, he does not depart from it."
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