Lead the people with administrative injunctions and put them in their place with penal law, and they will avoid punishments but will be without a sense of shame. Lead them with excellence and put them in their place through roles and ritual practices, and in addition to developing a sense of shame, they will order themselves harmoniously
ConfuciusWhen you are ignorant about something, to know that you are ignorant about it - that is knowledge.
ConfuciusThe gentleman calls attention to the good points in others; he does not call attention to their defects. The small man does just the reverse of this.
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