When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.
ConfuciusThe nobler sort of man emphasizes the good qualities in others, and does not accentuate the bad. The inferior does.
ConfuciusThere are some with whom we may study in common, but we shall find them unable to go along with us to principles. Perhaps we may go on with them to principles, but we shall find them unable to get established in those along with us. Or if we may get so established along with them, we shall find them unable to weigh occurring events along with us.
Confucius