A superior man may be made to go to the well, but he cannot be made to go down into it. He may be imposed upon, but he cannot be fooled.
ConfuciusThe gentleman calls attention to the good points in others; he does not call attention to their defects. The small man does just the reverse of this.
ConfuciusIf you did not do so for the sake of riches,You must have done so for the sake of novelty.
ConfuciusThe gentleman is calm and at ease. The gentleman is dignified but not proud; the small man is proud but not dignified.
Confucius