There are three degrees of filial piety. The highest is being a credit to our parents, the second is not disgracing them; the lowest is being able simply to support them.
ConfuciusI will not be concerned at other men's not knowing me;I will be concerned at my own want of ability.
Confuciusthose who understands is not better than those who appreciates, those who appreciates is not better than those who enjoys.
Confucius