Without an acquaintance with the rules of propriety, it is impossible for the character to be established
ConfuciusThe Superior Man has nothing to compete for. But if he must compete, he does it in an archery match, wherein he ascends to his position, bowing in deference. Descending, he drinks the ritual cup.
ConfuciusThe superior man makes the difficulty to be overcome his first interest; success only comes later.
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