The Master said, โWhat a worthy man was Yan Hui! Living in a narrow alley, subsisting upon meager bits of rice and waterโother people could not have borne such hardship, and yet it never spoiled Huiโs joy. What a worthy man was Hui!โ (Analects 6.11)
ConfuciusIn dealing with the dead, if we treat them as if they were entirely dead, that would show a want of affection and should not be done; or, if we treat them as if they were entirely alive, that would show a want of wisdom and should not be done.
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