I used to take on trust a man's deeds after having listened to his words. Now having listened to a man's words I go on to observe his deeds.
ConfuciusWhat you dislike in your superiors, avoid doing to your inferiors. What you dislike in your inferiors, avoid doing when working for your superiors. What you hate in those who are in front of you, do not do to those behind you.
Confucius