The Master said, "To study, and then in a timely fashion to practice what you have learned - is this not satisfying? To have companions arrive from afar - is this not a joy? To remain unrecognized by others and yet remain free of resentment - is this not the mark of the gentleman?"
ConfuciusThe Master said, "Wealth and honor are things that all people desire, and yet unless they are acquired in the proper way I will not abide them. Poverty and disgrace are things that all people hate, and yet unless they are avoided in the proper way I will not despise them. If the gentleman abandons ren, how can he be worthy of that name? The gentleman does not violate ren even for the amount of time required to eat a meal. Even in times of urgency or distress, he does not depart from it."
ConfuciusThe superior man makes the difficulty to be overcome his first interest; success only comes later.
ConfuciusWhen the multitude detests a man, inquiry is necessary; when the multitude likes a man, inquiry is equally necessary.
ConfuciusIn vain I have looked for a single man capable of seeing his own faults and bringing the charge home against himself.
ConfuciusThere are cases in which the blade springs, but the plant does not go on to flower. There are cases where it flowers, but no fruit is subsequently produced.
ConfuciusIf I give a student one-fourth of what he should know, I expect him to get the other three-fourths himself, otherwise I do not want him as a student.
ConfuciusThe Master said, โWhat a worthy man was Yan Hui! Living in a narrow alley, subsisting upon meager bits of rice and waterโother people could not have borne such hardship, and yet it never spoiled Huiโs joy. What a worthy man was Hui!โ (Analects 6.11)
ConfuciusPlease stop waiting for a better and more appropriate time to become happy and focus on the moment you live in. Happiness is not an arrival, it is the journey itself. Many people seek for happiness above the height of human beings, some below. Yet, happiness is exactly at the exact height of human beings.
ConfuciusDonโt complain about the snow on your neighborโs roof when your own doorstep is unclean.
ConfuciusWhen superiors are fond of showing their humanity, inferiors try to outstrip one another in their practice of it.
ConfuciusA wise man seeks by music to strengthen his soul: the thoughtless one uses it to stifle his fears.
ConfuciusThe nobler sort of man emphasizes the good qualities in others, and does not accentuate the bad. The inferior does.
ConfuciusHe who is really good can never be unhappy. He who is really wise can never be perplexed. He who is really brave is never afraid.
ConfuciusIf you look into your own heart, and you find nothing wrong there, what is there to worry about? What is there to fear?
ConfuciusIsn't it a pleasure to study and practice what you have learned? Isn't it also great when friends visit from distant places? If one remains not annoyed when he is not understood by people around him, isn't he a sage?
ConfuciusThe determined scholar and the man of virtue will not seek to live at the expense of injuring their virtue. They will even sacrifice their lives to preserve their virtue complete.
ConfuciusThere is good government when those who are near are made happy, and when those who are afar are attracted.
ConfuciusBehave when away from home as though you were in the presence of an honored guest. Employ the people as though you were assisting at an important sacrifice. Do not do to others what you would not like yourself. Then there will be no feelings of opposition to you, whether it is the affairs of a state that you are handling or the affairs of a family.
ConfuciusYin and yang, male and female, strong and weak, rigid and tender, heaven and earth, light and darkness, thunder and lightning, cold and warmth, good and evil...the interplay of opposite principles constitutes the universe.
ConfuciusIt is goodness that gives to a neighborhood its beauty. One who is free to choose, yet does not prefer to dwell among the good - how can he be accorded the name of wise?
ConfuciusIf I hold up one corner of a square and the student cannot workout the other three for himself, I won't go any further.
ConfuciusThe Master said of Gong Yechang, โHe is marriageable. Although he was once imprisoned and branded as a criminal, he was in fact innocent of any crime.โ The Master gave him his daughter in marriage. (Analects 5.1)
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