The superior person is calm and composed; the lesser person is continuously worried and distressed.
ConfuciusThe Master said, "Wealth and honor are things that all people desire, and yet unless they are acquired in the proper way I will not abide them. Poverty and disgrace are things that all people hate, and yet unless they are avoided in the proper way I will not despise them. If the gentleman abandons ren, how can he be worthy of that name? The gentleman does not violate ren even for the amount of time required to eat a meal. Even in times of urgency or distress, he does not depart from it."
ConfuciusWhen you know a thing, to hold that you know it, and when you do not know a thing, to allow that you do not know it - this is knowledge.
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