There is an enemy-maker in each of us. We make enemies of the people we love the most and the people we know the least.
Connie ZweigThe shadow disguises itself in our projections, when we react intensely to a trait in others that we fail to see in ourselves.
Connie ZweigOnce you uncover the history of this pattern and trace its roots, you will see that your reaction in the present moment is really a reaction from the past, a shadow character's attempt to protect you from reexperiencing an old emotional wound, which instead sabotages you in the present.
Connie Zweig