I believe we all have different ways we came to the gay community and we can't and shouldn't be pigeon-holed into one cultural narrative which can be uninclusive and disempowering.

I've always been wary of marriage.

Gay people who want to marry have no desire to redefine marriage in any way. When women got the right to vote, it did not redefine voting.

There are a lot of myths about gay people.

What I do for exercise sort of depends on what's happening in the rest of my life.

Women are half the population and they know how to take care of themselves, if they are only given access to health care.

I do tend to be an analyzer. I'm an old English major from way back, so I do have fun tearing apart texts and trying to find the hidden secrets and the subtexts in there.