First one must change. I first watch myself, check myself, then expect changes from others.
Dalai LamaAwareness of death is the very bedrock of the entire path. Until you have developed this awareness, all other practices are obstructed.
Dalai LamaThe practicing of loving kindness toward one's enemy is the ultimate test of one's own spiritual attainment.
Dalai LamaIf there's good, strong evidence from science that such and such is the case and this is contrary to Buddhism, then we will change.
Dalai Lama