A good deed, "said the prophet Mohammed, "is one that brings a smile of joy to the face of another." Why will doing a good deed every day produce such astounding efforts on the doer? Because trying to please others will cause us to stop thinking of ourselves: the very thing that produces worry and fear and melancholia.
Dale CarnegieLook your audience straight in the eyes, and begin to talk as if every one of them owed you money.
Dale Carnegie