Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.

Happiness doesn't depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude.

The difference between appreciation and flattery? That is simple. One is sincere and the other insincere. One comes from the heart out; the other from the teeth out. One is unselfish; the other selfish. One is universally admired; the other universally condemned.

Every day I pray. I yield myself to God and the tensions and anxieties go out of me and peace and power come in.

There is only one way under high heaven to get anybody to do anything. Did you ever stop to think of that? Yes, just one way. And that is by making the other person want to do it.

It is the way we react to circumstances that determines our feelings.