[Biblical counseling] Must insist that the image of God is central to developing a solid view of personality; that our sinfulness, not how we've been sinned against, is our biggest problem; that forgiveness, not wholeness, is our greatest need; that repentance, not insight, is the dynamic in all real change.

A leader - whether in the home, church, business, community, or government - has authority due to her role, but her positional power will not bring about good for individuals or organizations unless it is backed up by the capital of character.

One of the best sources of perspective is enemies. If we can learn from them, then we can profit from anyone.

Love cannot last without a foundation of forgiveness.

Most people want to grow, but the price of growth is pain.

The cost for the recipient of God’s grace is nothing, and no price could be higher for arrogant people to pay.

It is God's design to use reluctant servants to usher in glory.