We are the masters of our own universe.
I learned early on not to listen to either critique - the people who love you or the people who don't like you.
It is said that in death, all things become clear.
It has always been this way. Death is followed by birth. To reach paradise, man must pass through inferno. - Bertrand Zobrist
For me, the spiritual quest will be a life-long work in progress.
That is the definition of faith - acceptance of that which we imagine to be true, that which we cannot prove.