We all have our scars. That's what falling is love is all about: revealing your scars to somebody who then loves you anyway.

Outing is brutal and it should be reserved for brutes

In an open adoption agreement, you agree to a minimum number of visits - a floor, not a ceiling. It's enforceable.

A huge part of what animates homophobia among young people is paranoia and fear of their own capacity to be gay themselves.

One person simply can’t be all things to another person – sexually or otherwise—and unmet needs, unfulfilled desire, and unexplored possibilities are prices we pay to be in LTRs (long –term relationships). Monogamous, polyamorous, Femdom, or whatever: All couples people walk around feeling a little unfulfilled. (Single people, too). Because no one gets everything they want.

Bisexuals need to recognize that their being closeted is a huge contributing factor to the hostility they face.

School is very conformist, and one of the very first conforming that goes on in preschool and kindergarten is gender.