In being vulnerable, we reach for our greatest need while risking our greatest pain.
The First Goal of Conversation: Understanding, not Agreement
If we don't know how to deal with sin then we don't know how to deal with people.
Discipline works from the inside out, and punishment tries to work from the outside in.
Every problem must find it's owner before we can ever offer a solution
Yes, it's vulnerable and scary to keep your love on toward someone who has become a perceived threat-you cannot guarantee what he or she is going to do. But you can guarantee your own choice. And you can always choose connection.