I think unknowing is the most important theological idea for me. Unlearning the things you think you know.

I think unknowing is the most important theological idea for me. Unlearning the things you think you know.

I always think to myself, being human, having crushes now, what is it about that person that I really want? What do they represent? More freedom? Someone to care for me more? It's never really about the person.

When you write you have to reside in the unknown for as long as possible.

The problem with being a modern woman, I thought, as the front door swung wide, is that you have to pretend to be stronger than you are.

When you love a woman, you love yourself, and it's terrible really, how it seems perfectly possible to swallow the other. With a man you want to join, you want your ribs to connect like handcuffs. But with a woman if you swallow, she becomes you.

I knew people want most what they pretend to hate, that it takes courage to say what you really want.