Everything's intentional. It's just filling in the dots.
I wave to the double-decker buses from my bike, but the passengers never wave back. Why? Am I not an attraction?
I love getting out of my comfort zone.
I try never to wear my own clothes, I pretend I'm someone else
You create a community with music, not just at concerts but by talking about it with your friends.
My take is that the kind of complexity which says we can always generate complexity from simple interactions following for example rules.