...you have the opportunity to free fall in this moment between birth and death, right through the hole of your fear, into the unthreatenable openess which is the source of your gifts. The superior man lives as this spontaneous sacrifice of love.

The real practice of love goes beyond satisfaction and dissatisfaction. Wallowing in pleasure can be just as limiting as wallowing in pain if you don't open your heart beyond the satisfaction of your personal emotional needs.

Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease, or women. Feel what you want to give most as a gift, to your woman and to the world, and do what you can to give it today. Every moment waited is a moment wasted, and each wasted moment degrades your clarity of purpose.

You are either withholding your love in fear or giving your deepest gifts.

Infinite Love is who we really are and who we refuse to be. This refusal is our most essential tension.

Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease, or women.

We eventually learn that emotional closure is our own action. We can be responsible for it. In any moment, we can choose to open or to close.