There's a kind of Ah-ha! Somebody at least for a moment feels about something or sees something the way that I do. It doesn't happen all the time. It's these brief flashes or flames, but I get that sometimes. I feel unalone—intellectually, emotionally, spiritually. I feel human and unalone and that I'm in a deep, significant conversation with another consciousness in fiction and poetry in a way that I don't with other art.

There's a weird kind of paradox that the more expensive the vacation is, the more potentially anxiety-producing it is.

Pleasure becomes a value, a teleological end in itself. It's probably more Western than U.S. per se.

Whatever you get paid attention for is never what you think is most important about yourself.

It's like a fugue of evaded responsibility.

Dieting makes me want to murder everyone around me.

Postmodern irony and cynicism's become an end in itself, a measure of hip sophistication and literary savvy. Few artists dare to try to talk about ways of working toward redeeming what's wrong, because they'll look sentimental and naive to all the weary ironists. Irony's gone from liberating to enslaving. ... The postmodern founders' patricidal work was great, but patricide produces orphans, and no amount of revelry can make up for the fact that writers my age have been literary orphans throughout our formative years.