There are many things that can keep you in a relationship," I say. "Fear of being alone. Fear of disrupting the arrangement of your life. A decision to settle for something that's okay, because you don't know if you can get any better. Or maybe there's the irrational belief that it will get better, even if you know he won't change.

Maybe that's what history is, you go from one I can't believe it the next. And sometimes the I can't believe its are good, and sometimes they're bad. But the sum total of positive ones always outweighs the negative ones.

You know what happens to girls who loves lost boys? They become lost themselves.

We found out a long time ago that we weren’t meant to fall in love with each other. But a part of me still fell in hope with him.

To get something you must give something away. To hold something you must give something away. To love something you must give something away.

With some break-ups, all you can think about afterwards is how badly it ended and how much the other person hurt you. With others, you become sentimental for the good times and lose track of what went wrong.

She is my first and only love. Most people know that their first love will not be their only love. But for me, she is both.