There are many things that can keep you in a relationship," I say. "Fear of being alone. Fear of disrupting the arrangement of your life. A decision to settle for something that's okay, because you don't know if you can get any better. Or maybe there's the irrational belief that it will get better, even if you know he won't change.
David LevithanEvery single answer starts with the phrase 'I don't know.' But most of the time she does know, if I give her the time and the space in which to answer.
David LevithanThat word again. Happy. Itโs a curse. The pursuit of happiness makes us deeply unhappy. Itโs a trap.Before anything else happened, there was me in bed, thinking of who you used to be. I donโt want you to think I forgot.
David LevithanThe first sentence of the truth is always the hardest. Each of us had a first sentence, and most of us found the strength to say it out loud to someone who deserved to hear it. What we hoped, and what we found, was that the second sentence of the truth is always easier than the first, and the third sentence is even easier than that. Suddenly you are speaking the truth in paragraphs, in pages. The fear, the nervousness, is still there, but it is joined by a new confidence. All along, you've used the first sentence as a lock. But now you find that it's the key.
David Levithan