If you want to live within the definition of your own truth, you have to choose to go through the initially painful and ultimately comforting process of finding it.

It was so much easier when I didn't want anything. Not getting what you want can make you cruel.

What did it matter to me? Did I think that by making you rational about one thing, I could make you rational about everything? Maybe. Or maybe I just wanted to save you from your fears

When it all come down to it, the thing that matters most in a relationship is principles [...] We have the same idea what’s right and what’s wrong, and that’s got us through any number of things. If you can have that with someone, then you’re most of the way toward love. Not just lover-love. Any kind of love.

I'm not in love with you.

You wanna-I dunno-get coffee or something sometime?" Justin smiled "Not coffee. But yes." "Not Coffee it is, then." "Yes, Not Coffee.

I wonder if it's possible to start a new relationship without hurting someone else.