Always have your players go and pick-up the guy who draws the charge.
The focus should be on the players. I'm here a long time. You can call me in the summer. Our seniors will be gone.
You should just do the right thing.
The death penalty makes us all murderers.
If you make every game a life and death proposition, you're going to have problems. For one thing, you'll be dead a lot.
What to do with a mistake: recognize it, admit it, learn from it, forget it.