I know a lawyer who'd love to retire and be an assistant coach. I mean, it's fun.
As soon as you try to describe a close friendship, it loses something.
Good people are happy when something good happens to someone else.
You should just do the right thing.
I would never recruit a player who yells at his teammates, disrespected his high school coach, or scores 33 points a game and his team goes 10-10.
Over coaching is the worst thing you can do to a player.