It occurred to me then that a lot of life was either about wanting and not having, or having and not wanting.
Deb CalettiI'd always thought telling the truth to other people was hard, but maybe that was a snap compared to telling the truth to yourself. Sometimes we just refused to know what we knew.
Deb CalettiI thought I might cry, the way you do when someone gives you some kindness when you most need it but when it seems the most surprising thing.
Deb CalettiAnother person is, at the heart of it, unknowable. And if you cannot know a person enough to always guess what theyโre capable of, you certainly cannot know them enough to hold them in your hands, to control their behavior, to fight, manipulate, cajole or nurse or soothe them into doing what they should or shouldnโt. People will do what they will do. The trick is admitting your own helplessness about that little fact.
Deb Caletti